Write it down on good old fashioned paper with a pen or pencil! Seriously!
Oh? You did?
Well, then, do yourself a favor and periodically review your written goals and ambitions! You can modify them. Really.
I become a tad frustrated when you seem to make choices directly counter-productive to your previously stated goals. And, if you say we’re friends and you express goals and then you make counter-productive choices and I ask you, quite gently, what the hell you were thinking, don’t be shocked! Good friends steer you away from the cliff, not applaud as you launch your dumb ass over the edge! No matter how stylish the launch is.
You can tell I keep lots of friends.